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If his parents weren’t distracted, the resistance would become more definite and he might offer excuses such as, ‘I’m busy… I’ll do it in a minute… I want to do this first.’ His next level would be to say, ‘I feel sick… my tummy hurts’ and so on. Initially he would giggle, tease and run away. The smallest of demands would initiate ‘avoidance mode’ and he spent a huge amount of time and energy fighting off the demand, when a fraction of that time and energy would have accomplished the task.Ĭharlie would offer an escalating amount of resistance. This can take the form of shouting, screaming, throwing things and physically lashing out, often in very sudden and dramatic ways.Ĭharlie’s parents described how, at six years old, he wouldn’t co-operate with simple day-to-day tasks such as getting dressed and feeding himself. This is a form of panic on their part and is usually displayed when other strategies haven’t worked or when their anxiety is so high that they will ‘explode’ or have a ‘meltdown’. Those with PDA may also use straightforward refusal or outbursts of explosive behaviour, including aggression.

Underpinning this avoidance is an anxiety about conforming to social demands and of not being in control of the situation.

acknowledging the demand but excusing self.

At times any suggestion made by another person can be perceived as a demand.Ī key feature of PDA is that the child has sufficient social understanding to use a level of social manipulation in their attempts to avoid complying, and will often adapt strategies to the person making the demand. Demands might include a suggestion that it’s time to get up, go out of the house or join a family activity. Children can seem under an extraordinary degree of pressure from everyday expectations, and they may attempt to avoid these to a remarkable extent. This is the feature of behaviour that gives the syndrome its name. Resisting and avoiding the ordinary demands of life It is the extent and extreme nature of this avoidance that causes such difficulties, which is why it has been described as ‘pathological’. Demand avoidance can, of course, be seen in the development of a number of children. PDA is best understood as an anxiety-driven need to be in control and avoid other people’s demands and expectations.

Newson proposed that PDA should be seen as a separate syndrome within the pervasive developmental disorders (PDDs), which was the recognised category used within the versions of the psychiatric classification systems current at the time (ICD-10, put forward by the World Health Organisation, and DSM-IV, by the American Psychiatric Association). 1 This was combined with sufficient social understanding and sociability to enable the child to be ‘socially manipulative’ in their avoidance.

The central feature was ‘an obsessional avoidance of the ordinary demands of everyday life’. As time went by it became apparent that, while these children were atypical of those with autism or Asperger syndrome, they were very similar to each other in some important ways. Newson and her colleagues felt increasingly dissatisfied with the description of ‘atypical autism’, feeling that it wasn’t helpful in removing the confusion that was often felt by parents and teachers who were struggling to gain greater insight into the child’s behaviour.